"Detaching and GAL should not require that you stop loving your spouse. "

Of course not. But the majority of people don't know where to draw the line.

You keep mentioning DB, but you really should read the book first before you mention principles. It isn't what you think it is.

M-43 W-40
2D - 9 and 5

Emotion, yet peace.
Ignorance, yet knowledge.
Passion, yet serenity.
Chaos, yet harmony.
Death, yet a new life.

RECONCILED AND WISER