W has recently just starting spent time at my house. It isn't me inviting her, she just stops by.
My Ds enjoy it a lot so I'm torn. We have always said we wouldn't stand in the way of each other spending time with the Ds, so I will not tell her she can't come over. This week at work she came by twice to have lunch with me.
She is coming over unexpectedly uninvited and unannounced?
She thinks she owns your privacy.
One day when you are ready for female companionship you will understand how that does not work.