I disagree. I am not saying that you should not leave if that is what it takes, but why would you want to to try and save your marriage if you don't love your spouse? Detaching and GAL should not require that you stop loving your spouse. And when I talk about having one foot out the door, what I am referring to is getting involved romantically with someone else while still trying to DB with your spouse. That is not fair to anyone involved.


M 39, W 34
M 15
S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6
Separated: 7/2/2012
Served: 7/10/2012
Divorced 11/5/2012