BM,
Sounds as if you are past the ultimatum stage now and the straw broke somewhere a while ago.

But a year is a long time ago and his more recent attention might be worth a last look.

In some instances, it seems that this sort of propels things forward.


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D