i am seriously not the person that is the most familiar with the different stages of mlc, but gosh i can see depression in this guy FULL FORCE

wrd - you did EVERYTHING right, you didn't pressure, you didn't pursue and you provided a friend

oh my god, he came to california??? that is such a big big plus! he came to see you all - and just didn't know how to handle it - that is TREMENDOUS

i am so proud of you, just keep it up, keep being his friend, that is what he needs more than ANYTHING right now