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[dj21]

I completely agree needsgrace, I do think it is unhealthy for our D18 to be in the middle. I have previously, on numerous occasions, asked via email, text and in person for H to not use our D18 as his communicator. I suppose this is me dropping the rope, per say. I just can't seem to figure out a different way of making the request, and it was feeling as though I wasn't getting a positive response doing it my way. I felt like by me continuously harping on the two of them about how I was being communicated with it made them do it more. It feels completely wrong, and that is why I am unsure if this is the right thing to do or not. I am trying to do the opposite. eeeeeek.