I finally caught up on your thread. Sorry to hear about the situation with regards to your S. I guess your W probably finds it difficult being the one who ends up seeing most of what your S goes through. Frankly, she probably feels guilty and I'm sure she's hurting inside. I don't think she's doing this to hurt you or punish you. She's just trying to avoid a situation which reminds/shows her the consequences of her actions.
If you do send a reply, try to keep this in mind and perhaps even show a bit of compassion. Neither way is going to make her change her mind on the issue anyways but at least this might help your W see a different side of you.
Stay strong and thanks again for being there for me.
Freshman Class of 2012
M-49 W-42 1D-10 T 10 YEARS M 9 YEARS EA/MLC 07/2010 Separation 28/05/2012 PA confirmed 31/07/12 W Asked for D 31/07/12 D on and off the table since then