Hi Rough,

I finally caught up on your thread. Sorry to hear about the situation with regards to your S. I guess your W probably finds it difficult being the one who ends up seeing most of what your S goes through. Frankly, she probably feels guilty and I'm sure she's hurting inside. I don't think she's doing this to hurt you or punish you. She's just trying to avoid a situation which reminds/shows her the consequences of her actions.

If you do send a reply, try to keep this in mind and perhaps even show a bit of compassion. Neither way is going to make her change her mind on the issue anyways but at least this might help your W see a different side of you.

Stay strong and thanks again for being there for me.


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then