It's made a big difference in her attitude (see three posts above this one)
W is Afrikaans speaking so weak, wordy and supplicating doesn't really do justice to how she would read it. A shock definitely went through the system.
She also seems to be in the last stages of "stay away" based on three yeas ago. Rather than apathy there seems to be a germ or annoyance which, believe me, is a good sign. Finally digging herself out of the depression. And when that's settled I'll have to figure out how to get it treated.