Newbie and ready for hard work

[needgrace]

Hi dj21, sounds like you are doing so well managing some really difficult feelings

i guess i would be concerned about how healthy it is for your D to play that role, as intermediary. it seems to place her in the middle. how do you think H would respond if you found another way to communicate and explained that you did not want to put D in the middle?

breathe and get some mantras to help you through...