I hate to write this one. But I've reached a breaking point this weekend. I can no longer live with the conniving, lying person my WW has become.
I went to be on my own this weekend, planning to stay overnight camping. My wife ended up not only staying out all night that evening, but also Friday night and Monday night. She has been home over the weekend for a grand total of two hours Saturday morning, and that only because I was worried and called her that morning.
Then I discover she went with her lover to the beach and stayed there Saturday and Sunday. This is the week I look forward to every year to be alone with my wife and away from the kids, but she went with him on a vacation.
I can no longer stand this and feel I am just an enabler of her actions. I am planning on separating from her. I know that I should stick it out for another three months, but I just cannot do this knowing what happened. I feel like I'm failing the DB system, but it has reached a tipping point. I do not believe that she has any interest in saving our marriage, and my actions appear to make her be free to move further away, not closer.
Lord knows I'm all for a strong stand, WS, but I'm confused. You start your post by saying "I went to be on my own this weekend, planning to stay overnight camping," but then you say "Then I discover she went with her lover to the beach and stayed there Saturday and Sunday. This is the week I look forward to every year to be alone with my wife and away from the kids, but she went with him on a vacation."
Were you planning on being with her this weekend, or away by yourself?
