professorfiancee- sorry i didnt reply sooner, attempting an MLC free weekend, more on that later, typing this reply from my phone. I'm still laughing about him wanting the picture back!!! Goes to show how crazy they can be! I think we all have to be a little crazy to deal with all they dish out. smile I don't know if I'd be spending so much time talking to him, it's nice he wants to spend time with you, I don't know what I would do if H said that or indicated that in anyway. The death threat concerns me.... But we did locally just have a guy kill his ex her bf and his mother all because she didn't answer his phone call and he wanted to see his child... So I might be a bit more sensitive to those comments right now...