If She Won't Stop the Affair?

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In my opinion, DB-ing does not mean enabling or living with behavior you can't and shouldn't tolerate. If you feel like you are enabling her, you likely are. And, as long as a cheating spouse is enabled...in my opinion, they'll continue the affair. Why not?

Separate, focus on yourself, let her go. Keep your interactions pleasant and focused on the kids.

This could be the quickest way to wake her up. Hang in there and don't feel like you've given up. You don't deserve this disrespect.