i know this sounds stupid, but i hadn't realized until today that when h says jump i say how high!! suddenly i was like - he can wait to give me his "news" or whatever. he makes me wait and wait for every little thing, this time i'm not going to be so available.
There you go!
What ever ant he has in his pants is HIS. It sounded like "business" so treat it like "business". He can stew over what ever crises he's having and you can plan for it (ie. talking to joann, etc.)
