Water, well...I can tell you that you should not do what I did ...which was to rush things. Take things slow. Enjoy the little gifts along the way. DATE your MATE. Think of this as a time to reconnect with him slowly but surely....my H and I rushed things and didn't clear all the rubbish away and it stunk things up....work out your issues ...slowly, carefully along the way as the opportunities present themselves...you'll have a stronger, happier relationship for it....you have the rest of your lives if you take this part slowly....God bless and thanks for stopping by my thread....don't do as I do, cause I am far better at spouting out wisdom than I am at acting wisely in my own behalf. Hugs, Akgal. You get my award for TAKING THE TIME TO HEAL DB'er of the Day
