I think you should take things slow. If I were you I would start by writing down what YOU need in order to feel that she is honest about how she feels. I would also take the opportunity to move back into the house. At the end of the day, in some ways it may be easier for HER to see the CHANGES in YOU if you were around more often.
I would also sign up for solution based marriage therapy.
Have you asked her if she wanted to work on the R? It is one thing to want you to fix this for her, quite another to recommit to you.
Good luck Eric
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