He called me both Sat and Sun. His single M friend was visiting all weekend. My overactive imagination almost had him in some sort of orgy, when reality they visited friends 82 yr old aunt on Sat night. And he called me about 9:30pm and we talked for about 20 min. It was a nice conversation.
He called on Sunday night too. If he wants to talk to the kids he will usually call them on their cell phones. That night though he called the house phone. He and I talked for about 15 min and we were laughing. It was a good conversation. He said he went to church which is not a normal occurance. Then he talked to both kids. Just like a dad calling his family??
No contact on Monday
Tues night I called him, got VM. I left him a message, just some little things that I am doing at work etc. No return call.
I had planned on no contact until he called. I know he is very busy with new position and all. Plus trying to give him his space.
I couldn't do it though, I called him this morning on my way to work. Got VM again. Left a very short I know your really busy and have a good day message. He called me back a few min later and we talked for just a couple min.
I was smiling and happy as I talked.
I don't have any idea where we are with each other. I'm not sure on how much to contact him.
I am feeling frustrated.
I feel like I am standing on one side of the an open door and by walking through the door means to committ and he is not to that point but maybe he is at least turning around to look at the door.
Is there anything I could be doing at this point to help?
