The answr to your 1st question is that is pure persuit."should I just take a deep breath and not worry about it unless she brings it up?" Yes that is the anwser.
The second question is more difficult. If you are needing a female to make you feel better about you than it's not a good idea. And if you have not made the changes that got you here you will bring all of that baggage into a new R. So be careful.
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“Failure is not fatal, but failure to change might be.”