Quote: had these issues with my h where I was very jealous and insecure and constantly wanted reassurance. My c told my h that him reassuring me is reinforcing the insecurity and that I need to be able to reassure myself.
Last night H called and we talked for a while. Both kids were gone most of the day and into the night. I told him that I had the house to myself and he said "you should call someone and get l*id." I told him no, I was waiting for the good stuff with him. He said, so you've had the bad... He said it in a joking tone, but I wonder how much I am feeding his insecurities??? I think I'm flirting with him, but maybe I need to alter my approach.
Later in the conversation it came up that I was alone most of the weekend and I told him too bad he wasnt here as we could have on the pool table. He seemed more receptive to that comment. Maybe because it was more specific about him?
Thoughts? Am I on the right track or is flirting in that manner just too much at this point?
He did mention that he is not sure if he was going to stay in Seattle this coming weekend or come down here. I didn't mention anything about picking him up or staying here. Go with the flow and keep swimming!
on the pool table. He seemed more receptive to that comment. Maybe because it was more specific about him? 
