Well, things changed drastically over the weekend.
I did not have any contact with W thursday after I talk to her, she sent a text message on friday with a happy face, I did not answer that either.
I am living at my aunt's home. Friday, I went to sleep and at around 1:00 am, I heard nocking on the bedroom's door. I woke up and opened the door, W was standing on the hallway. She asked me if I could stay home with her, my answer was no. I tougth she was drunk because she smelled like beer. I did not asked any questions (STFU) and just listed to what she was talking. She said that after we talked on thursday and some advice from her grandpa, she decided to end everything with OM. She mentioned she did not contact him thursday or friday, but that he was calling her consistantly and she was not answering his calls. He went to W's house moments before 1:00 AM, and nocked. W went out to the door, and told OM that their R was over. This is were things changed drastically, SOB got violent, and grab her by the hair and punched or on the stomach and trew the beer at her. She did not scream, or did anything because she did not want her older son (he is 24) to get involved. The SOB, left and that is when she drove to look for me.
Now, so much for going dim on this one. She is now looking for the shelter that Denver was talking about, she was pretty scared. I spent the weekend with her, but did not push anything on her. I tried to keep my talks about anything else other than our R, and also kept from asking her about SOB.
She on the other hand told me bit and pieces about how SOB is. I STFU and just listened. She also told me about the advice her grandpa told her, I STFU and listened. She also talked about our relationship, and plans for the future, again I STFU and listened. She said she would like for us start rebuilding our trust in each other, for us to move back together.
I am pretty reluctant about doing this right away, I do love my wife, but like you all say "You probably be back in this forums in 6 months". I want to do things right and not screw things up.
Please, guys your advice on how I should handle this situation is greatly appreciated. Thanks..
