Hi Water, It's so nice to see you! I agree w/what the others have said. Keep yourself from getting angry and defensive and end the convo. in a quick and short way. No, I have not...period. I had these issues with my h where I was very jealous and insecure and constantly wanted reassurance. My c told my h that him reassuring me is reinforcing the insecurity and that I need to be able to reassure myself.
So maybe, you can not even ANSWER him when he says these things but tell him that you are not willing to discuss these things with him as he needs to trust you. (or someway diplomatically.) Doing a 180 and experimenting with diff. approaches sounds like a good idea.
hope to see you again soon! i've been thinking about you.
