GALbaby.... I guess I'm still here doing this because I love my W. I love my kids and I want my family. Kids... I would say are the main reason right now that keeps me focused. W and I had/have what in all aspects would called a low conflict R, I'm certain they don't know there is problems(w and I have become very good actors).
I feel trapped because with the latest developments with their grandmother, who my kids are just starting to realize what is inevatbly is going to happen, and where that will put my W emotionally, what kind of person would that make me to tell her I think we should atleast S.
I'm frustrated ....why did she put a wall up , why couldn't she come to me with her concerns/ frustrations with our M, and why can't she tear it down. I can't answer these only she can but I'm not sure she has anything left in her emotional tank to even what to try. I as others on this board need to come here to vent so I don't vent to her.