Hi Rough, good job giving yourself time to cool off, that's awesome! Your message draft got a LOT more clear each time you revised it. However, what were you trying to accomplish? Are you hoping to fix this single event into an agreement that neither of you should deviate from the written visitation agreement? Or were you just hoping to express your frustration and disappointment at being told no? If the latter, you're shooting yourself in the foot by demanding that she set this in stone. Why not give it more time to see if a pattern develops and let it go if it's a one-off? And be really clear to yourself about what you're trying to accomplish before you fire off an emotion-driven message.
Adinva 51, S20, S18 M24 total 6/15/11-12/1/12 From IDLY to H moving out 9/15/15-3/7/17 From negotiating SA to final D at age 50 5/8/17-now: New relationship with an old friend __ Happiness is a warm puppy.
