"Not sure why, but brit posted something that is sticking out for me right now. That she wants to be in someones life because they want her, not because she forced herself in. thinking about that really allows me to leave h alone. Its not going dark, its to allow hook the space and opportunity to reach out to me, should he decide he wants to"

that's how i'm beginning to feel too. which makes it difficult to do the flirt/attraction thing. maybe it's also because we are starting to grow more and more confident, and we don't see this as our only choice. we would like it to be that, but we are opening up the space - not just for them, but for ourselves too...

it's funny how so many of us are arriving at the same thing with friends. a few weeks ago i started to feel really restless with my friends- as if they weren't quite what i needed - i wasn't resonating with them the same way as i used to. that's when i realized that my energy has changed so much - what brought us together was the energy of the old me, and now, i want other stuff

i'm practicing allowing in that area too - where i know that eventually i will meet people who i will connect with at the level i'm at - and like you - starting here where we are on the same wavelength so to speak:)

I don't think our h understand what they gave us. The worst thing they could have done to us is, in a way, the best thing they could have done for us.

aah stronger... grin X 20!!!

hope you have a wonderful day, sweet girl!!

zig

me 46 H 38
M10yrs T 11
S10
BD ow 8/11
h filed 9/25/12


"if i could define enlightenment briefly, i would say it is the quiet acceptance of what is"