3KidsDad..I know exactly what you mean believe me. Its been 3 months of roommates for me too. No intimacy and no affection from H. Everything else remains the same, working, paying bills, yard work together, preparing meals for the family. I've got to ask...why did you tell me you didn't want to do this any more, but here you are still doing it? Things have improved, but i am very careful not to act too quickly. H has only recently asked me to do some stuff with him (golf) and I am working on friendship. I actually think he is so "proud" he wants me to make the first move. He was never one to apologise or make up first, so this is not unexpected. Difference is I now feel like I am the one who is controlling the dynamic in this relationship.
I am going to move very slowly, even though I hate the waiting, cry (never in front of him) and am beginning to question if its what I really want.
Good luck, keep the faith and have patience patience patience.
