Need help with detaching and hoping to reconcile.

[lillystillinlove]

Ok, I made a judgement call on contacting H. Upon returning home from GALing with S, he (S) was heartbroken H wasn't here, he was crying and saying how much he missed daddy. My heart is breaking for him. Thanks so much hubby. I couldn't take it so I text him to call and speak to S. As soon as he called I passed the phone off to S, which calmed him down quite a bit. H asked to speak to me to ask "What's up?" I said "exactly what S said". He told me what he wanted to do with S the next day which of course told me he forgot the already established plans. I finally had the opportunity to end the call first though, yay.

Previous to this text and call exchange, all attempts at contact were from H. I answered 1 call and I hung up before he was done (I honestly didn't know he wasn't finished) and he called back.

For the 3 days prior I made first contact one other time to see if he wanted to go to the birthday party today. He declined because it was more important to continue his nesting. All other contact was initiated by him and I wasn't at his disposal.

Any thoughts or suggestions?