thank you. i really dont know thar she is out to get me. i do put my kids 1st. before anything else. dont bother readin my sitch. boring with lots of dumb crybaby stuff on my part. i have read the divorce papers. a few times. there is pretty much nothing in there. it is so generic i am surprised it came from a lawyer. that being said. i am looking out for me so i can care for my children. i will post a bit of it so people can comment. no "legal" advice tho..lol