You are so right! I recently became aware of this myself. A big part of me is mentally looking back trying to coach him forward...I guess we just are in different places on our path, or maybe I'm assuming we are still on the same path?
a few months ago I was a mess, and I have moved forward by leaps and bounds. It seems as if h has been regressing and not even had a whif of reality. Crazy how the sitchs seem to flip in that way.
Me-31 H-24 D3,D2 M 4 yrs WAW(me) 12/2011 role reversal 03/2012 (H)PA 3-6/2012 (H)D filed 6/2012 D deemed "inactive", closed 8/2012 I've moved on 9/2012