The truth is I want to persue her. Tell how much I love her and miss her. That I realize my shortcomings of the past. That I would never take a moment with her for granted again. What I wouldn't give for one more kiss. That I want her smiling face to be the last thing I see at night and the first thing I see in the morning for the rest of my days.
So I have answered my own question. Stay dim. I'm not there yet. I have to protect myself.
Yes, you very much answered your own question. Even though a month seems like forever... it really isn't as long as you think. Definitely continue with more space and give it more time.
Me: 32 H: 32 M 9 yrs #1 D7 #2 S5 #3 D2 Bomb 8/12/11 H moved out 8/14/11 PA started w/H & OW in 1/12 - found out 3/24/12 Got my own place 8/25/12 H & OW move in together 9/15/12 Still married.