As a woman- i wonder if a man (my man) would/could come to her conclusions and find his way out. it sure was an eye-opener. my H sounds like her- totally unaware he may be the problem, contribute to it or even be involved. it's all about his fun and my causing all the trouble. i have trouble having faith (in him) - i have a bit of hope in life- in general - i have alot of confusion & pain. interesting insights tho..- thanks for sharing it