Hey RT!
I agree with AJ. I was initially also saying if my now STBXH wanted a D he had to do the paperwork. Well.... as things drug along, I was stuck here as his wife on paper, while he was out acting like a single guy. And we are in the same house, so I have no privacy unless I go into my bedroom. And still buying his bananas and cooking his dinner......

So I filed. And yes, I think my STBXH wanted to be able to tell people at work that I divorced him. I have arrived at "Whatever" and don't care anymore. He has no friends. He eats lunch alone everyday. He doesn't have a hobby. He doesn't engage with anything or anyone except the TV. And OW, who is now 3,000 miles away.

I am moving along with my life. And feeling better everyday.

Aloha,

Wendy

Me 57 XH 58 Sons age 32 & 27 M:32
D final 9/12
Bought 10 Acres and Living the Dream!