Today it has been a week since I have spoken to, called or texted W other than arraigning the schedule for me to provide child care services. I did see her yesterday when my MIL took me and my kids to lunch at the restaurant where W is the manager but even then I did not say anything to her except hello and good bye. I sure would like to know what she is thinking and feeling by my therapist, as well as all of you guys, have done a good job of helping me keep my distance and respect her space. In fact, my therapist pointed out to me that I was acting rather co-dependent and that may have been aggravating the situation a great deal.

Anyway, I just wanted to share this milestone with everyone, the longest I have gone before this was two days. I also wanted to thank everyone here for the help that you have given me so far. For the first time in a while I have actual hope that maybe I can save my marriage.


M 39, W 34
M 15
S 14, S 12, S 9, D 7, D 6
Separated: 7/2/2012
Served: 7/10/2012
Divorced 11/5/2012