It's OK to feel angry. Let it wash over you, but then process it. It doesn't do you any good to suppress it or stuff it down. If you do, at some point it will come bubbling up. Just deal with it so you can start connecting the dots.
Just remember to vent here and not to your W.
You will find that there is a gift in all this. It is time. Time to make yourself into the man that you were meant to be. Time to get back to the Arsene you were before you got married. Time to do those things you always wanted to do, but couldn't because you had to worry about what someone else would think about it. Y
What was it about Arsene that attracted his wife in the first place? How far away are you from that Arsene now?
