The best thing to do right now is back off and give your H space. If you haven't read MWD's 'Divorce Remedy' I suggest you pick that up and read it ASAP. In it it will suggest things that are counter intuitive to what you think you should do concerning your H. Following it will give you the best chance at reconciling your M.
STAY away from your H's FB page. It will only hurt you at this point. If your friends should ask you what's going on just say that your H and you have separated to have time to sort things out and change the subject.
Only confide in one or two close friends who will not judge your H or you and run around gossiping about your sitch. You need people who support you. Make sure you can trust them. Come here to vent so you don't do it to your H.
Be careful about confiding in family as they will just want you to stop being in pain and may give you advice to do things you're not ready to do.
