I hope you saw my reply to you above your latest post. Also I would recommend that you read the resources at the top of the MLC board to see if any of it rings true as to your W's present actions.
You essentially do the same things whether your W is a WAs or is in MLC. It just sometimes helps to know what you're dealing with. If you determine your W is in MLC just know that it will be a long journey for both of you.
