Need help with detaching and hoping to reconcile.

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Hi Lilly,

We are in the same spot - although 4 months since I found out about EA.

How do you feel about S and H being at your house on H's time? I mean I see you are pissed - but is it a issue for you?

My H is still coming over to the house to be with S(5). I've given up on asking H if he wants to take S to his place. Yes, it means that H is 'invading' even though he wants to be alone...
So I did make it a point go out more when H is here, or I will go up to the bedroom... You have some GALS you are working on that you can do at home? Is there a private area you can do them in? I do try to go outside of the house on one of the weekend days...

For me, I think of it as an extended opportunity to 'interact' (ie not interact in my case) with H. Meaning, yes I acknowledge you are here, however I am doing my own thing now and conversation is minimal. (Actually I am on dark day #2 for my sanity right now).