I did read this when you first posted and really had no words that I could think of to say.
I have learned a lot about low energy MLC'ers in the past few years and I must admit that they follow a different script than what Conway and followers write about.
It seems that their replay activities are very short but that even though it appears to end they never leave the escape and avoid mode.
They are stuck at a younger age of development and this might be why it takes them so long to grow up.
You are doing the right thing with moving on in your life for YOU. As that is all we can ever DO. If they ever decide to really grow up and become adults again then it will be their problem about trying to catch up with us.
MLC takes TIME - way too much TIME.
Thanks for the Update and know that I have thought about how you were doing. Sorry it is the way it is working out but YOU are going to be FINE, and I hope you find all that you are looking for.