my name is Amelie, I've been with my husband for 11 years and next month we were supposed to celebrate our 9th year wedding anniversary. We have a 14 months old baby and a month ago I found out he was having an emotional affair with a married woman he met at work. When I found out, I felt betrayed, angry and so upset I broke his blackberry (that's how I found out all those txt messages). I kicked him out of the house and I took him back because he told me he wanted to work things out, it didnt last long until 2 days later I found emails saying they missed each other. I was so angry< I was shaking, I texted her telling her awful things< called her to stay away from my husband and I even called her husband to let him know what was going on! I was so furious I told him to grab all his stuff and leave! He left and I proceeded to change the locks of my house. 2 weeks passed, we tried to talk and go to a marriage counselor but things turned for the worse on Sunday when I asked him to come back home, he said he wasn't sure what he wants in life. I was so upset I told him I wanted a divorce, he said "OK". The next day I called him because I wanted to apologize and he said he doesn't want to talk to me anymore and that he's moving on with his life and that he messed up our marriage. I feel so sad ever since and I know in my heart he still loves me but he's too angry. We both hurt one another, I want to save our marriage, because I know we can work things out. I love him with all my heart. I wish I've read "Divorce Busting" earlier< Ive done all the wrong things frown...need some advice.
Also he changed his status on facebook to "Separated" I asked him very calmly over the phone to make it "private" because it was none of our friends business to know what is going on. He yelled at me telling me it is his facebook account and he can do what pleases him with it and told me to go to hell and hung up. I was shocked because he never yelled at me like that.
