BM,
The D is your choice now, then. I can understand getting to that point.

Have you considered what the last straw is? Would you consider a more direct conversation with him and telling him this is pretty much it and asking him to C to see what happens?


M: 16 years
Bomb 4/07
OW 20s long gone
Divorced 11/09
I remarried New Guy
Cooperative r w/X regarding D