Thank you. I know that now. After my major meltdown I have realized that I am doing more harm than good. I don't need to make the OW look more desirable. I'm still devastated but I'm handling it better. I need a gameplan now that I'm dealing with a totally different situation. Not only am I trying to convince my husband not to divorce me but now there is the OW that I'm "fighting" for my husband against.
Me:29; W:37 T: 6 M: 4 D: 2; SD: 14; SS: 17 H filed D: 6/13/12; H moved out: 6/14/12 H moved back in: 6/28/12 Confirmed EA: 8/12