2 month seperation WAW talk a/b D options

[mshaf]

Update:

W brought my two Ss by last night for a short while after I got off work. On her way she asked if I would like to keep them after work, to which my response was a little short. It upsets me that she always waits until the last minute to ask. I feel bad for saying no.

Dropped my Ss off and we barely spoke aword. She came back to pick them up and my oldest had not eaten so I had made dinner for him. She went to our(mine now)bed to lay down and read while he ate. No real conversation.

I don't know if I did the right thing because the D talk was yesterday. Maybe i was too stand offish. I'm not happy about the D talk but especially upset with her either.

My question is: how after our D talk and two month seperation do I seem cordial but not pushy? Friendly yet detached? Should I be more assertive about the things I want and the things that irk me, or should I let them go until she iniates conversation?

I HATE GAMES!