S13's bday tomorrow...crappy timing for him. W asked if I wanted to take kids bowling and then get his bday dinner. I told her she could take them, but it wasn't going to be a family deal. She could have either lunch or dinner, but not both. She's made this bed...let's see how comfy it is. I'm not trying to be an ass, but this is what she's asking for.
On the bright side, I did ask her about her expectations for church and she said "I think we should sit together. We are still a family." Well, that's something I guess.