When I say stuck, I mean H doesn't get C, doesn't become an acceptable H or parent, doesn't have a grip on a healthy life.
I can't be willing to stay with him under those conditions because it won't be fair to my life or my families.
Don't get me wrong, I want my M and love my H, but I am not the one MLC, Andropause, or depressed. What I want doesn't matter. One day will I have to make a decision for me, the one person I can control.
The past can't be ahead of you in the future. You don't have to figure it all out, just pick a direction. What's next...I don't know but I can't wait!