I think my list needs some help, here it is:


GAL:

Painting
Reconnecting / stay connected with friends / make new friends
Get involved in S's school

Personal Goals:

Try Yoga
Start Running again
Lose 15 more lbs

Relationship Goals:

Repair our Marriage
Detach now that he's move out
Do not initiate contact unless it concerns Porter
Be a friend, nice but to the point
Don't be concerned with his feelings (don't be mean but...)

I don't owe him any explanation for my activities
No Excuses
meaning no explications. reasoning doesn't work, no "but" statements
Remember what he is going through
He deserves time to figure out what he want, he's angry with good reason
Allow touch initiated by him

Reading List:

DR re-read
How to Repair Your Marriage Without Talking About It.
5 Love Languages
Depression Fallout
Divorce Busting

Can someone help me with this or provide feedback

Thanks


lillystillinlove
M:43 H:49
T:17 M:16
S:6
Bomb: 1/27/12 EA+ with close married family friend / ILYBINILWY
H moved out 7/27/12
H is Extremely angry, stressed and unable to forgive