Hi Lilly,

Hang in there. I'm sure it must be tough but you seem to have a great attitude. You say that you hate to see him hurting and I'm sure you do. It can't be easy to see the person you love in pain. But look at the bright side, with this pain must be a lot of uncertainty and the way I see it, that's good coming from a WAS.

Frankly, I wish my W showed a bit of pain as well. Sometimes it feels like she's totally indifferent about our sitch and our R. It's almost like she's made up her mind and there is nothing to make her waver. It's also good that he initiates conversations. Again from where I come from that's a sign that he's not totally gone.

I hope the move isn't too painful for you and S. Take care and be strong. Your S needs it.


Freshman Class of 2012

M-49
W-42
1D-10
T 10 YEARS
M 9 YEARS
EA/MLC 07/2010
Separation 28/05/2012
PA confirmed 31/07/12
W Asked for D 31/07/12
D on and off the table since then