Need help with detaching and hoping to reconcile.

[lillystillinlove]

Labug, I looked back over the last few posts and I see what you are saying. I am hung up on his every move and word. Act as if the marriage is over, that is tough, I know what you are saying is correct but just thinking about it scares the crap out of me.

Ok, off to re-read the 37 rules. Maybe even put them, my GALs and goals on my phone. Have them handy always.

Thank you for shaking me out of that whirlwind of hopeful sadness. I'm sure it will happen again so be ready...

Last thing, One more GAL I want to add. I have a few friends (mutual to me and H) that I've spoken to about this sitch. I will stop all dicussion with them. Not fair to them and this forum provide advice that will actually get me somewhere healthy. Not let me wallow in my own sadness. These friends are very supportive but they are good friends to all parties involved so I think it is best to not drag them into it.