Oh, I could use some input, from anyone....I'm upset, but actually fairly calm all things considered. I'm not sure contacting OM's W was the right thing...but I have thought about it for a long long time and it seemed time. I know grabbing her phone and looking at it was wrong, but seeing the texts actually allowed me to let go.
One thing that really bothers me is that OM's W told me my W has been telling OM for years that I'm physically abusive to her. We've had a couple of incidents over 15 years when booze was involved, but she's been as guilty as me. I can't believe she's telling people this. And tonight, she told me she had bruises all over her hips and a black eye, so asked me if I wanted to get the cops involved....really? Our kids are right here and she's going here? And I'm like "how the hell did you get a black eye and bruises?!" She says "how do you think BD?" Huh? Seriously? That's some anger there. I don't know what's going on.
I'm getting ready to play Uno with my little people....gonna try to salvage the rest of the evening.
