I Have 90 Days To Save My Marriage

[NASCARDaddy]

I am trying. It has been five days since the last time I tried to have any kind of R talk with W, which is pretty much the longest that I have gone since the process began. I am getting better but it is still hard. I understand about detaching and all of that intellectually but I still struggle with it emotionally. I just have to keep reminding myself that my mind is the one in charge and not my heart.