Piecing - Round 1

[Denver_2010]

Quick update...

Apparently W telling the owner of the music company that she works for that she will not be doing any shows with OM has created a stir. She told owner that OM had tried to FB friend me and she also told another friend who works for the same company. That friend is also friends with OM. But, he has always been supportive of my efforts to reconcile M and against OM's efforts with W.

Anyway, 'friend' told W that he had spoken with OM and told him to knock it off and to leave W alone. He told OM that W has moved back in with me and that he needs to respect that... that I am her H, not him.

So OM texts 'friend' telling him that he didn't try to FB friend me and details all of the things that he has actually done: look at pictures on my FB accoutn (W has blocked him), texted W last weekend (OM says it was a 'moment of weakness'), and has tried to text step son (his number is blocked on SS's phone though).

'Friend' forwards OM's text to W. W texts 'friend' back saying that OM is 'obviously lying' about trying to FB friend me (she saw it on my phone) and asking 'friend' to tell OM to be an adult about things.

OM texts friend again (also forwarded to W) saying that he will not contact W again and that IF they ever end up working together that he will not talk to W.

W texts 'friend' and owner of company telling them that she is sorry that they had to be 'brought into this'.

W told me about all of this and told me that she would show me the text messages from 'friend'. I told her not to worry about it, that I didn't need to see it.

However, later last evening, W left her cell phone downstairs and asked me to go get it. I checked the text messages from 'friend' when I was downstairs getting her phone.

W told me the truth about all of it.

Kinda disappointed in myself that I snooped, especially since W blatantly offered to just show me, but W has no idea that I did, so it's all good.

I do hope that the drama ends soon. I merely want OM gone from our lives altogether. Like GH said, I'd be happy never hearing his name again.

On a down note, my brother in law is now saying that he is going to divorce my W's sister. They have been tremendously supportive of my efforts to save my M. I talked to bro in law for about 45 minutes today trying to get him to calm down.

... heard all of the same stuff... he is done, not in love with W ... should never have married her... etc.

Made me sad.

Denver