2 month seperation WAW talk a/b D options

[mshaf]

Update:

Last night met with my WAW over dinner(Sushi she hates sushi, I was hungry). I felt I could not avoid because she called again as I left work to discuss D terms. Apparently she has already talked to two attorneys and has found one she wants to go with. She wants us both to use the ame lawyer as it would save money. I think this is a terrible idea as she has known this guy for years. But I didn't feel like discussing it. I said very little over the short time together. Only agreed and validated. Oh and asked her about a book she was reading.

Over dinner she cried as she talked about divorce. Said that "it's me not you, I'm not happy". Told me my oldest B3 ask for me every night and that she wanted to be amicable. Sounded like a script. It's me not you, what a bunch of crap.

I have gone dark as much as possible. We still have to talk to arrange child pick up/drop off as well as a few other things. Other than that I do not call, text, drive by her house. No contact unless she initiates.

I know meeting her to discuss D was probably not the best idea, but I wanted to see what she had to say. I am kind of confused as to how to handle seperation. It seems like a 180 for me would be more contact, but I know that is not the answer. I understand nothing will happen anytime soon, I can't help but question my actions and responses.

I know I havent posted very long, anyone that would like to chime in is more than welcome.