W has recently just starting spent time at my house. It isn't me inviting her, she just stops by.
My Ds enjoy it a lot so I'm torn. We have always said we wouldn't stand in the way of each other spending time with the Ds, so I will not tell her she can't come over. This week at work she came by twice to have lunch with me.
On a side note, I finally got a new (to me) car.
I got a flat on my spare so I was stuck trying to find a used tire as I didn't want to spend money on a car I was going to dump in a few months. All the used places were closed so I finally had to goto Walmart and get a $55 tire which became over $70 when everything was added.
The very next day, the radiator goes out. Steam is spewing from the engine. Just what I need, to pour more money into something I didn't want.
W said I needed to get a new car. I said we can go look and she took me to the dealer. I expected to not be able to get anything because finances were so bad in 2011. But I wanted to know what I would need to do in the next few months to get a car.
Picked out a nice car just to see what they said. It was actually under my budget so I got it on the spot. A nice, sporty BMW. Working AC. Working radio. 4 doors to make it easier to get the Ds in and out. Boy was the W jealous! She has always wanted one.
This was a total 180 for me as in the past, I would have picked a sensible car that got good gas mileage with no extras. It felt nice to reward myself. It felt nice to think about me instead of making all my decisions based on what I thought was best for others.
M-40 W-33 D3, D4, SD13 T 9 YEARS M 5 YEARS ILYBINILWY APRIL 2012
